Sunday 29 January 2023

Pistis wonders when folk matters or folks matter (weekending January 28th 2023)

 


‽istis wonders when folk matters or folks matter (weekending January 28th 2023)

This week ‽istis has pondered:

‽ Holocaust Memorial Day[i]  millions and millions of real people - every single one of them a child, a grandchild, a sibling or friend or parent or aunt or uncle or grandparent– killed, murdered, raped, made homeless, livelihoods destroyed, children and adults traumatised with acute and chronic consequences; bodies and minds as sites of international crimes and evidence at the very least of our terrible capacity for utter, pathetic, catastrophic failure…

‽ the potential for escalation of conflict in Ukraine – perhaps more and more people killed, murdered, raped, made homeless, livelihoods destroyed, children and adults traumatised with acute and chronic consequences; bodies and minds as sites of international crimes; possibly more and more profit for arms’ manufacturers; perhaps more evidence of our terrible capacity for utter, pathetic, catastrophic failure…

‽ strikes across the UK, in-work poverty, privileged ‘elites’ visiting food banks[ii] (‘let them eat from donated tins’) for whose benefit? An example of maybe structural, systemic, sanctioned, endorsed, reinforced and perpetuated inequality meeting a perspective that divides, organises, rewards, accords and affords value based on what may be no more than the uncontrollable vagaries of birth and level of physical or mental capacity - for which none of us can perhaps claim responsibility or take credit – pun intended…)

‽ niche hobbies and their enthusiasts (from organ-grinding to Lego model building; perhaps, possibly, maybe more to follow in forthcoming blogs)

…and has also pondered when folk songs matter.   

‽istis recently learned a folk song from the UK’s West Country – with a tune thought to be from the sixteenth century, words seemingly from an unknown poet and both ‘collected’ from one James Parsons, son of a man known as ‘The Singing-machine' and the then occupant of the role of ‘songman’ hereditary in the family[iii] .

‘A maiden sat a weeping’

A maiden sat a-weeping

Down by the sea shore,

What ails my pretty mistress?

What ails my pretty mistress?

And makes her heart sore!

 

Because I am a-weary,

A weary in mind,

No comfort, and no pleasure, love,

No comfort, and no pleasure, love,

Henceforth can I find.

 

I’ll spread my sail of silver,

I’ll loose my rope of silk,

My mast is of the cypress-tree,

My mast is of the cypress tree,

My track is as of milk.

 

I’ll spread my sail of silver

I’ll steer toward the sun

And thou, false love wilt weep for me,

And thou, false love wilt weep for me,

For me _ when I am gone.

 

Then, this week, walking on the beach there was a ‘maiden’ – slow-pacing the shore line, stopping to gaze, motionless, out to sea for lengthy periods – before pacing again from one length of the beach to the other…  possibly, perhaps, maybe ailing or with heart sore.

 ‽istis watched between rounds of ‘fetch’ with the dog: waiting long enough to see if a companion might arrive, there was none; waiting long enough to commit a basic description to memory and check the watch in case detail were needed for coastguard or police later; waiting long enough to worry and debate the pros and cons of leaving/staying/saying or doing nothing/finding a way to interact and engage.

A contrivance of a dog toy thrown closer gave the opportunity: a called out ‘sorry’ and then a slightly hesitant but direct question: ‘are you alright? I couldn’t help but be a bit worried’ (not great perhaps but that’s what came out at the time – and ‘What ails my pretty mistress? And makes her heart sore!’ didn’t seem quite appropriate! Ingrained assessment skills kicked in: body language; response and tone of response; any ‘a-weeping’; any ‘a-weariness’; any apparent absence of any source of ‘comfort’; any apparent sign of taking ‘no pleasure’ – any despair…

 And ‽istis was reassured to a degree. Whilst there may well have been some pondering weighty matters, things seemed sort of OK and alarm bells did not sound. A message, it is hoped, had been conveyed: that someone was concerned enough, had potentially noticed and could potentially offer some support.

 No report of a lone person walking into and then lost at sea was spotted in the media over the next few days; for this relief much thanks. And now, a few days’ later…?

·        Had the song played a part in shaping awareness of the possibility of shore-side distress?

·        Was asking the question enough?

·        Was the relief that assuaged imagined fears and allowed ‽istis and dog to leave the beach, appropriate or misplaced?

·        What would ‽istis have done or said if the worries had been confirmed and if there, right then was weeping, weariness, sore-heartedness and serious ailing?

And…

·        What songs perhaps, possibly, maybe capture a little of the tough, rough, tricky reality of the stuff of ordinary life for many people right now who may be a-weeping, ailing, comfortless or weary?

You may have your own list of such songs to hand easily, but just this week ‽istis listened to ‘Dark Water’ by Sean Cooney[iv], ‘Country Life’ by Show of Hands[v], songs by Lady Maisery[vi] and Our Native Daughters[vii], and lots of Fado from Mariza[viii] and Raquel Tavares[ix].

 Perhaps, possibly, maybe ‘folk’ and roots music matters, because folks matter - anybodies’ and everybodies’ everydays, everywheres and everywhens - especially in the harsh, bright light of more and more examples of our species’ terrible capacity for utter, pathetic, catastrophic failure…     

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[iii] Information from the Introduction to: ‘ Songs of the West – Folk Songs of Devon and Cornwall Collected from the Mouths of the People’ by S.Baring-Gould M.A., H.Fleetwood Sheppard M.A., and FW, Bussell, Mus.Doc.DD (6th edition published in 1922 by Methuen and Co., London)


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